Willingness: a powerful bridge between our present reality and our desires

Our present reality is “old news” in the sense that it has already manifested into being. Our past thoughts and feelings have summoned the energy that created and attracted these current manifestations. The pathway to manifesting a different reality and a more desirable outcome consists of changing our thoughts, feelings and beliefs through the process of forgiveness, (self)love, reflection and spiritual growth, so that our energy vibration rises and we can attract matching and more desirable energies, situations and people.

pexels-photo-814499 (2)Sometimes it seems like a difficult process to move from our old mental patterns and habits to a completely renewed mindset and energy. We may experience a lot of inner resistance or we simply do not know how and where to start.

Therefore it is recommandable to build our bridge to our new way of thinking and feeling brick by brick and to make these bricks out of our declarations of willingness. When we start declaring our willingness to the universe, the Law of Attraction will take care of the details and our building process will be an easy and gentle one. 

pexels-photo-1645825 (2)When we pronounce that we are willing to change, willing to release old habits and beliefs, willing to practise and do the work, willing to grow and learn, willing to forgive and willing to receive more love, inspiration, support, health and abundance, the universe will provide us with the stepping stones to do so.

With each small step we take, the momentum towards the new will start to accelerate and deliver us more and more synchronicities, guidance and insights. Doors will start to open with new possibilities of growth and expansion. 

Affirmations that start with the words I am willing have a soft and gentle energy to them. They conjure up less resistance when we are not yet fully convinced of and grounded in our new beliefs. Declaring our willingness to the universe creates an opening and a powerful starting point to our spiritual process of transformation. 

pexels-photo-1006121 (2)“My dear ones, I am Archangel Jophiel and among my areas of expertise are enlightenment, mental clarity and higher wisdom. My powerful yellow coloured ray of  energy is like a beacon of light on your life paths.

When you have reached the point at which you recognize that you have to change your life for the benefit of your well-being and happiness, call on me to help you on your way. Many fears and limited beliefs are held in your subconscious mind, deeply hidden and often repressed by your conscious mind. They keep you stuck in your ways and make you afraid of change.

When you pronounce that you are willing to change, the universe will help you bring these old pains, fears and limitations to the surface through the mirrors in your life in the form of people and situations, through dreams, through opportunities for reflection and even sudden wake-up calls.

Rejoice, rejoice, rejoice when this happens, because it is the start of your clearing and healing process. Through the unravelling of the old, you will begin to see glimpses of the new. Affirmations are powerful declarations and are heard throughout the universe. All your thoughts and words are energies, that activate the laws of the universe in bringing you what you are sending out energetically.

My encouragement is to keep declaring your willingness and intentions, keep focussing and keep feeling what you wish to manifest for yourself in this lifetime. Along your path of  growth and change you will start to discover who you really are, your own power and influence, your own creativity and manifestation abilities. Your trust and faith in the power of the universe and the enormous support that is available for you from the higher realms, will start to grow and it won’t be long before you will find yourself in the flow towards your spiritual rebirth.

When nature and all other life forms are so carefully tended to and loved by the universe, you can feel the deep certainty in your heart, that you will be too. Let yourself be inspired by taking in lots of fresh air, being in nature and embracing all the elements of the earth. Going back to the basics of your life, will help you find simplicity and ease.

Invite the angels to be with you, help you and guide you. There are many waiting for your call!”

– Archangel Jophiel –  


The home that is your heart

Guided meditations are a wonderful way for me to get insights and answers from the angels on topics, that are currently relevant in my life. Last night I received some beautiful metaphoric images from Archangel Raphael. While I was observing and enjoying them with my inner eyes, he kindly explained their meaning to me. This is what came to me through the loving guidance of Archangel Raphael.

Archangel Raphael handed me a key with a keychain attached to it, which consisted of a string of hearts. Suddenly I was standing in front of a beautiful, grand manor house. It was a glorious sight. The building radiated a soft glow as if it was lit from within. This house represents your heart, use your key and open its door, Archangel Raphael said.

When I stepped inside the grand house, I was overtaken by the magnificent interior. It was lusciously decorated in soft colours with lovely ornaments and comfortable, inviting furniture. Leading of the long corridors were rooms yet to be discovered. What a great potential this house has, I thought to myself. So much space to enjoy and so much room for loved ones to come and stay.

This house is your heart and thus your home. It is up to you to take care of it and make it beautiful and authentically your own, to decorate it as you please and to enjoy it and experience it as a place of comfort and well-being, Archangel Raphael said.

While I was roaming through the rooms of this magnificent home, I began to feel more and more at ease and very grateful for the hidden gems, I found along the way. The more I rejoiced the more beautiful the house became in my experience.

Then I entered a large room. It was the kitchen of the house and what I saw inside brought an overwhelming feeling of love and joy into my heart. Next to a blazing, open fire, sat all of my friends and family-members around a big wooden table. They were having the best of times, laughing and talking. As I entered the room, I wholeheartedly took in the warm and friendly atmosphere. A big smile appeared on my face while tears of joy were running down my cheeks. A friend just came into the kitchen through another door. He was cold from traveling outside. I gave him a big hug and invited him to join the others at the table. I looked at the scene before me and beamed with joy, love and contentment. I came home.

Your heart-space is the most valuable “property” you will ever own. It is the gateway to all connections and interactions with the universe and the higher energies of love and light as well as your human relationships. I encourage you to cherish this beautiful “home” by keeping it clean and cosy. Spend as much quality time there as you can, by yourself and in the company of your loved ones, guides and angels. Make a commitment to yourself to take good care of your heart-home, so it will be a place of joy, love, well-being and oneness with others. A place, you can be proud of, as it is you and only you, who can put in the work and make it beautiful!

I drew three beautiful cards with an additional explanation by Archangel Raphael, to get you started on your heart-chakra-work.

“The first card literally depicts your heart. Its beautiful green colour reflects unconditional love and healing. As you can see, it is both connected to the higher “Light”, the higher realms, Source itself, as well as your own emotions and feelings, represented by the water beneath it. When your heart is open and you see through the open “eye” of your heart, you radiate this golden light from Source. This powerful beam of well-being, abundance and love can flow freely to and through your heart. When you allow this beautiful and powerful energy from Source to occupy your heart-space, your emotions and feelings will reach a higher level of stability and joy. You gain inner peace, inner joy and contentment. Your outlook on the world and everyone and everything in it, is loving and kind. This immensely benefits your energy and that of those around you. The first step is to be aware of this, to just take in this information and the importance of this “heart-work”. This realization alone will bring you to a higher level of awareness and spirituality. Just sit for a while and take in the symbolism of this card. “

“The second step, as represented by the next card, is to start practicing on working with your heart-chakra in your daily life. Through your interactions with both your fellow human beings and your angels, guides and other higher energies of unconditional love and light, you get insights in what is going on inside your heart. This is about taking down the walls around your heart and letting love flow to and through you. Interactions with others will bring you pointers on the state of your “heart-house”. Are these people welcome guests in your house? Do they behave themselves respectfully in your home and do they honour you and your possessions? Do they bring you gifts, love and joy from their own “heart-homes”? Visualize your “heart-home” and see what the situation is. How do they make you feel when you are in your “heart-home” with them. Do you like them to stay long-term, do you like their short visits or do you rather wish for them to leave? Take time for yourself to be alone in your “heart-house” now and again to clean and uplift the energy, to fill it with your wishes and intentions, that make you feel happy and joyous. Invite the higher energies to visit you for a while and allow them to work their magic in your “heart-home”, welcoming their gifts of healing, blessings and guidance. Reach out to your angels and they will happily and readily appear on your doorstep!”

“The third card speaks of the base chakra, which is associated with safety and grounding. This speaks of the solidity of your “heart-house”. Your heart-chakra is the gateway, but the base chakra is needed to ground your relationships, your wishes and desires into your reality. It is about manifesting people, situations and material things in your life by doing the energy-work in your heart first. When you take care of your heart, you develop a clear outlook on your life, on what is acceptable and what is not. You know yourself and you know your own worth as love is your primary driving force. This love and joy in your heart will generate the right energy-frequency to attract that, which matches your desires. This offers you a stable starting point for all of your manifestations as well as a feeling of being safe and grounded, knowing you are firmly connected to your Source and the Earth. Your heart connects the energies flowing down from the universe and floating up from the Earth, both are needed for you to live a happy and healthy life.”

– Archangel Raphael –

Claim your kingdom!

She is the queen. She is the queen of a beautiful kingdom. Her radiant presence exudes love and well-being and her eyes sparkle with joy and fulfilment.

Her features are soft and gentle, her movements gracious and her words caring. Her outer beauty reflects the beauty of her warm and powerful soul. She sits on her throne, at ease and content with all that is. She bathes in the warmth of the sun, that always shines on her, as she chooses it to be so.

She loves to take walks through the land of her kingdom, enjoying all of the beauty and wealth that she so carefully gathered and cultivated. She gratefully watches the flowers and plants bloom and thrive in the fertile soil. She revels in feeling the uplifting presence of the unseen beings of unconditional love, who help her kingdom prosper. A light warm breeze carries their blessings throughout the land. No outpost is ever forgotten. She knows now that she is worthy and deserving of this magnificent oasis of beauty and love. She breathes a sigh of relief for it has been a long journey.

There was a time when the land lay barren. Seeds were planted, but showed no sign of life yet. Trespassers stumbled through the grounds, stealing and plundering her resources, disturbing the peace and natural stillness of her kingdom. Their muddy, boorish feet soiling the rooms and hallways of her beautiful palace.

These days are in the past, as the queen has since taken full residence on her throne, exercising her power and responsibility for her kingdom, ensuring its future protection and prosperity.

Her current guests and visitors come with a spirit of love and joy. Their eyes shining with anticipation, excitement and positive expectations as much as hers do. They are naturally drawn to her love and beauty and that of her kingdom. A flow of high frequency energy infuses their instant connection and joyful togetherness. They offer her delightful gifts of love, support and playfulness, that make her heart sing. In return she lets them bask in the warmth and love of her being. She offers them healing and a soft place to fall and lets them enjoy all the fruits and benefits of her beautiful kingdom.

They smile at each other. Sincere and meaningful smiles of knowing that all is well and always will be, as love is forever present.

I wrote these words as a powerful reminder to myself, that I am responsible for my own well-being and happiness in relation to myself and others. Feeling worthy and loved comes from direct alignment with Source, from being who you truly are and from doing the things, that make your heart sing. With a good sense of self-worth and a healthy dose of self-love you can go out into the world and relate to others without giving up your own standards, beliefs and values. You are not dependent on the opinion and approval of the people around you, as you are fully grounded in your own life and in your own love. As a vessel of divine love, joy and creativity, you light up the world just by being yourself. Your energy is enough, your presence is enough, your beingness is enough, YOU are enough!

The angels shared this additional message:

Whether you are a man or a woman embrace the feminine element in yourself. Trust that your feelings and intuition will lead the way to your best life. Your ancient feminine wisdom resides in your heart, she exceeds the mind in cutting through deception and superficial appearances.

She uses your senses and emotions as her voice. Listen to her whispers and surrender yourself to her guidance as she knows the right direction for you, even though you can not see where you are going yet.

Let her love and nurture you, she has many valuable treasures waiting to be discovered by you. 

Turning restlessness into focused excitement

Do you ever feel like you are longing for change, for new adventures and possibilities to show up in your life? Do you get restless, when you suddenly realize that your old way of life and rusty routines don’t feel satisfying anymore, but manifestations of change aren’t yet visible? At such a point in your life, resistance to what IS can creep up on you. Life is ever expanding and longing for more and new things, situations and experiences is only natural, but pondering your mind how to initiate change from a state of complaining and dissatisfaction will only block you from the universal stream of well-being and inspiration, as negative emotions are domineering and cluttering up your mind and energy.

So, how can we transform the resistance to what IS to excitement for what WILL BE, even though there is no physical evidence yet of new experiences and situations? How can we make the shift from complaining to getting excited about what is coming in the future, anticipating new abundance and opportunities?

I asked the beautiful Archangel Raphael to enlighten us further on this topic.

Feelings of restlessness are an indicator of dissatisfaction, resistance to what is. It is a state of tension, where the mind is dominant, conjuring up negative opinions on what is going on in the moment and what should be going on. Your egoic mind is complaining about what is wrong and what is missing in your current experience and is forcefully trying to come up with solutions to improve the situation. However, in this state of negative emotion, there is no clarity, no inspiration, no healing to be found.

The first step is to acknowledge that there is a discord in your vibration, straying you from your natural state of joy and well-being. A fresh starting point is needed, a seizing of momentum of the powerful stream of thought, that keeps telling you something is not right in this present moment. You have no power when you are overtaken by negative thought patterns and emotions. Purification is needed to cleanse yourself from unwanted emotional debris, which can be accomplished through visualizations, affirmations and meditation. Ask us Angels to help guide this process, we are happy to be of service to you and shower you with additional divine energy of love, light and healing. Connect to your breath and release all blockages and negative emotions, watch them flow away and dissolve with every outbreath. Then visualize yourself opening your heart- and crown-chakras to receive new energy, inspiration and light. Your body feels relaxed, open and ready to allow the stream of energy pouring down from the universe, entering your body and flowing all the way to your feet and into the Earth. You are standing in full alignment with the Universe above and the Earth beneath, in a beam of golden light, which fills you up, making you feel loved, confident, powerful, clear and vitalized. Just enjoy this state of being for a few minutes.

Let the power of love work through you, let go of old restrictions and fears that have held you back from reaching your full potential, from living a joyful and fulfilling life. At this stage your heart is in charge again and not your mind. Your heart knows the truth of who you are and holds the wisdom of your Soul. Your heart can feel its way through fear and doubt into the energetical reality of Love, which is ever present and abundant. Your trust in the Universe will grow as you come to realize there is only love, abundance and well-being. People distort this truth with their limiting perspective of and focus on their physical reality, cutting themselves of from their infinite creativity and manifestation skills.

When you feel light and free, you can easily allow inspirational ideas leading to inspired action to flow to and through you. Your improved energy will lead to incredible results and positive outcomes. Synchronicity and miracles occur, making you feel the flow of life and the ease with which you can really navigate yourself through life.

Trust your heart, dear one, and let the love and light, that you really are shine through. This is your Soul speaking, not your life’s story and personality, this is your Love, Light and Wisdom guiding you, not your past conditioning and restricting beliefs. You are eternal, you are pure light, you are a powerful creator and a beloved true expression of energy. That is who you are and don’t allow anything or anyone fool you into thinking or feeling anything less than that! Keep repeating this process and watch your life change for the better beyond your dreams and expectations! And there you go, from feeling restless and stuck, to feeling inspired and excited about life again!

-Archangel Raphael-


True power

True power comes from the realisation that no one or no thing poses a threat to you if you are connected to and in alignment with the wisdom, clarity and abundance of Source.

The only threat that anyone can ever pose to you is that they can make you reactive and defensive and in this guarded stance you lose your connection with your divine guidance, clarity and resources.

These powerful words spoken by the wise beings of light called Abraham (channelled by Esther Hicks) really struck a chord with me, when I heard them recently in an audio-segment randomly appearing on my you tube-feed. I just love it, when the universe brings me epiphanies and guidance through synchronicities like this!

I realised, that throughout my life I had often felt unsafe and threatened by unconscious people creating unpleasant situations and conflicts. Still heavily unconscious myself, I remained frantically focused on trying to fix the problem, to dissolve the struggle, that I was feeling. Endlessly worrying, letting all possible scenarios and outcomes clog up my mind, feeling desperate and wishing the whole situation would just magically disappear. I know now, that giving attention to any problem only keeps the struggle going, because what you put your attention on grows, it is simply the universal Law of Attraction. It is important to focus on what I DO want, not on what I DON’T want. What do I desire? That is the vibration I should be focussing on and sending out into the universe, while staying fully grounded in the receptive mode to receive the impulse to be in the right place at the right time, to have joyful experiences and to embrace all the blessings and abundance of the universe. Or in the words of Abraham:

There will always be people out there, who disagree with the way you live your life or who even in their shortage consciousness believe that they need to take from you what is yours, because they believe that they don’t have enough or are being unjustly treated. You don’t want to be in a guarded stance with them, instead you want to be in a compassionate stance with them, accepting their existence, even understand some of their thinking and why they do what they do.

In your alignment with Source, you are able to see them and love them just the same, because you are staying in the receptive mode, which is also the replenishing mode, because people can’t take from you as fast as you can replenish it. You have no shortage what so ever. When you are in the replenishing mode, you know that this resourceful universe will yield to you all that you will allow. There is a stream flowing to you of ideas, that will lead to manifestations and as you tap into that, it is just uncanny how clever the universe is in guiding you to the resources and the abundance and the blessings, that are just for you, that are vibrationally yours to claim!

Only you can deprive yourself of clarity, good timing, wisdom and abundance, when you let yourself get upset by unconscious situations and people, who are ignorant of the Law of Attraction, causing you to lose your alignment with Source.

Still in awe of my moment of clarity, I decided to draw some oracle cards and felt grateful to receive these beautiful additional messages from Archangel Metatron and Archangel Gabriel.


To prioritize means to spend your time and energy well. It means to determine what it is, you wish to focus your attention on. What is important to you? Where lies your passion? What makes your heart sing? Try to free up as much time as possible to spend on your priorities, even if it means, that you take little steps at first. Every big project and every great achievement once started with one little step. If you focus on the things that bring you joy, you will raise your own energy frequency, allowing you to come more and more in alignment with the energy of Source, which consists of pure love and pure joy. When you enjoy what you are doing, you generate the frequency of joy, which makes you more resistant to unconscious people and situations, because you are powerfully grounded in your own energy. If you experience flow in your activities, which are aimed at bringing more love and light into this world, and you feel fully supported by the universe, you are unstoppable! You don’t get out of balance as easily as before, because you are coming more into alignment with your true self, you are living a more authentic life. Once you know who you are and experience your own manifestation power, you won’t be easily discouraged. You know who you are and what you are capable of. Follow your own path, dear humans, keep searching for your own passion and your own way of living. Ask for help when needed and it will be abundantly given to you. Show the universe your true intentions and there will be an immediate response, without delay. Making choices that honour your priorities and support your life’s mission, will help you to strengthen your connection with Source and to keep you in alignment with Source no matter what happens around you. Don’t get distracted or be misled, take matters into your own hands, take leadership of your own life.

-Archangel Metatron-


True leadership means, that you apply your talents and strengths for the highest good and bring love and light into the world by helping, motivating and inspiring others. You are taking it a step further in the sense that you are using your power in a good and responsible way. If you stay true to yourself while exploring and displaying your passion and talents, you inspire others to do the same, causing more and more people to come into alignment with Source and allowing an increasingly beautiful stream of energy to flow into this world, an energy of passion, love and light. A flow of energy, which will enrich your life on earth, allowing you to live more easily and effortlessly. Make a conscious choice each day and at each moment to devote your talents and god given strengths to set an inspirational example to others. True leadership means taking responsibility for your own life and realising that you are not a victim of circumstances.  Keep on walking with a clear focus, which may mean taking small steps at a time, but just continue to focus positively. Let me help you to stay strong and full of confidence. I am the Angel of Communication and I will help you to express your truth, whether it is through words, images, actions or behaviour, in a way, that reflects the highest love. You are a shining example! Be a beacon of light for others!

-Archangel Gabriel-

Remember who you are!

Who you are matters! And how you show up matters! Every moment of every day, no matter where you are or what you do, you matter! You are demonstrating the presence and the power and the love and the being-ness of God in everything that you do, you matter! It doesn’t matter who raised you, YOU matter, it doesn’t matter what they did, YOU matter! It matters what you do, because you matter! -Iyanla Vanzant-

I love these words so profoundly spoken by Iyanla Vanzant during one of her inspirational talks. No matter what the circumstances are or how other people are behaving, it is about you making the choice to be in alignment with your highest self and the Divine Source, to act in love and light, because you ARE love and light. Remember your true nature! I asked the Archangels for their guidance on how to stay grounded in this truth and the magnificent Archangel Raziel stepped forward with this beautiful message.

This is a very important topic and it is indeed the key to everything, the key to prosperity and well-being. My card summarises in one sentence what it is all about “Take back your power”! Your own power or strength, is the only thing, that you can exert influence on to bring more love and light into this world. Realising who you are is key. If you could only see yourselves like we angels see you. Powerful and radiant souls, sparks from the Divine, full of love and light and strength to create your own reality and manifest your dreams. I will lift the veil for you a little bit by providing you with guidance on how to take back your power and apply it for your highest good. Remember, you never really lost it in the first place, you merely temporarily forgot about it! Nothing or no one can disturb your essence or take what is yours, that is an illusion. I would like to help you through these three keywords, that are easy to remember. You can use them as a reminder when you feel like you are out of touch with your higher self and the universe.


Home represents many things, but in this case it refers to your base, the base of your existence, where you are really from, and energetically this means that your home is with Source, the divine Source of all life and energy. Remember, that God, Source or the Universe, or whatever you feel comfortable with calling it, is your home, your base, your place of refuge, where you can always, always return to. Simply by opening your heart, pouring out your heart, asking for help and allowing the spiritual Light-world, which is there on behalf of Source, to fully support, comfort and embrace you. Feel this embrace of the universe, feel this connection and feel that you are never alone, no matter how challenging the situation is or how threatening the people around you are, nothing or no one can destroy this connection, your home-base lies in your heart and you are there within the blink of an eye. Know that this is so, dear people, feel that this is so, experience that this is so. From this home-base in your heart and the stream of love and light, that flows through it, you can create and nurture your Earthly home-base. Look around you and decide which action step you can take to enhance your well-being. No matter how small this step may seem, pay attention to it. Know, that if you start walking, for every step you take, the universe will take two.


From this divine home-base in your heart and your connection to the universal, intelligent flow of strength, love, light and well-being, the most powerful energy there is, don’t forget this, you will start to take steps and move forward. Steps you take from this home-base are steps aiming for your highest good and well-being. Focus your attention on the very best and point your thoughts towards what you would like to manifest, your desired dreams and outcomes. Don’t hold back, reach for the stars, dream big! Visualise your dreams and speak positive words and affirmations and then focus your attention on your Earthly life, the forms and people around you. Aim your love and light well through clear and courageous steps forward. Know, that your positive focus will bring you a positive outcome, it is the universal law. Devotion also implies, that you don’t allow distractions to lead you off your path, to interfere with and diffuse your focus. Whatever others may say or do, look upon them with love and compassion, but don’t let them undermine you. Bless them and keep on walking, slowly but steadily. Don’t allow your light to be dimmed, but instead keep looking for possibilities to let it shine even brighter.


Trust is the last keyword and asks you to be courageous enough to let go of the outcome. Trust, that what you have put into motion with your powerful positive focus will eventually manifest, even though you can’t see physical evidence of it just yet. On an energetical level wheels are turning, so to speak, which you can’t see as a human being, but you can feel it. You can feel it in your heart and energy, you feel empowered and you know, and this is an inner knowing, that all good things must manifest, because you have brought out your love and light and shone it into the world. The effect is inevitable, because what you send out energetically will come back to you energetically. Trust, that this will take form for your highest good. Release the outcome and trust that the universe in its infinite wisdom will bring you the forms that suit you best and serve your highest well-being. Don’t limit yourself by filling in the how, what or when, but simply open your heart and arms to receive. Stay anchored in gratitude, because it is already there in spirit, now allow it to manifest effortlessly into your life.

Beloved ones, take these steps to heart whenever life is challenging, whenever you are feeling lost. Know, that the road to Home is truly easy to find. Know that Home is a place of inspiration and rejuvenation, allowing you to emerge courageously and joyfully to continue your path and to see your life unfold for your highest good. Don’t forget, that there is a tremendous amount of love, support and help available to you from Source and the Light-world. Don’t underestimate its worth! In love and blessings.

-Archangel Raziel-

The angelic outlook on bullying

I asked the magnificent Archangel Sandalphon some questions on the topic of bullying, as it has such a tremendous impact on the lives of so many people, affecting their health, well-being and happiness.

Why do people bully other people?

You ask why people bully other people, why people feel the urge to belittle others and make their lives difficult with unkind and undermining words and behaviour. The answer lies with the bullies themselves. People who are unhappy in their own skin, are people who focus negatively on others. There are blockages in their bodies and energy-systems, that cause them to feel unhappy. Maybe at one point they were bullied themselves. One thing is certain, they encountered negative, undermining experiences, that affected their personal happiness and self-confidence. Human beings, who are balanced and have sorted out their energy, in other words, who have faced and cleared their own blockages, are open channels for love and light to flow through. They have no desire to treat other people badly, they hold no grudges against or feel threatened by others. They stand in their own power and strength and focus upon their own paths and future. They won’t allow restless, negative emotions and feelings to linger, but instead they choose to move forward. Life smiles upon them and they wish to make the best of their time here on earth. An abundance of positive energy, love and light radiates out from them, lighting up the lives of many.

People, who are bullies or people who are being bullied right now, should realise these two things:

Someone, who feels the need to bully others, has blockages in his or her body and energy and should ask him- or herself where these negative emotions are coming from, so they can be healed. We angels would gladly offer our assistance with this process.

These blockages cause someone, who bullies others, to remain stuck in the past. In a so-called prison of negative patterns and conditioning. These negative emotions prevent them to grow and move forward and to embrace the future in a positive way. The progress and development of their good gifts gets obstructed.

Send those, who behave in this unconscious way, love and light, because they need it. Pray for their hearts to open and their energy to flow freely again, so they can feel joyful and relaxed, because a joyful and relaxed human being has no need to cause others harm in any way, shape or form.

What can you do when you are being bullied?

When you are being bullied, it can feel like a big weight upon your shoulders. The emotions and feelings that arise in this situation, affect your happiness and self-confidence. Realise, that you suffer from the negative energy, that someone else projects onto you. It has nothing to do with who you are and your intrinsic worth. Know, that you are a beloved child of God and always will be. Nothing or nobody can ever change that, nothing or nobody can affect your true self. Look at it as a cloud that hangs over you, a cloud of negative energy, that someone has sent to you. This cloud filled with negativity affects your body and energy, but it is not attached to you, it can be removed. Free yourself from this cloud, send it away or better yet ask the angels to resolve this cloud for you. Cleanse yourself energetically. Visualize a shower of light washing away all the pain and negativity.

When someone gets bullied, it always leads to the question: Why? Why me? It triggers old memories of when you felt unworthy, not good enough or even bad. Nobody deserves to be mistreated, it has nothing to do with you or what you did or didn’t do. Release the past. Let go of what happened, again and again. Focus upon strengthening your energy, ask for a clear outlook to see the spiritual truth, that you are a radiating human being with a lot of love and light to bring into this world. Let go of everything that prevents you from standing in your power. Don’t dwell on what has happened, stop endlessly analysing and reliving it. Let it go, because it doesn’t serve you, dear human. Ask the angels to cleanse you and bring you renewed strength and confidence. These experiences are not attached to your true self, you can free yourself from them and leave them behind!

How can you take back your power and strength and keep a positive outlook on life?

People, who bully, and people, who feel victimized by bullying behaviour have one thing in common. They allow negative emotions and blockages to disturb and pollute their energy. They suffer from feelings of unhappiness and a lack of confidence. It is very important to clear your energy on a regular basis and see if you notice any blockages or resistance. The quicker you learn to discover when your body and energy-system are unbalanced, the quicker you can take steps to restore your balance. A person, who is balanced, is firmly grounded, full of confidence and radiates positivity. Take good care of yourselves, dear people, ask the angels for help and support. We can help you with conquering negativity and the cleansing and protection of your energy. Like I said before, someone, who is filled with love and light, radiates out this energy and influences the lives of others in a positive and uplifting way. Their abundance- consciousness allows them to give freely and effortlessly encourage others. This is your natural state. Try to reach this state and find, that nothing or nobody can affect your inner peace and calm. Real strength and power comes from within, it is not a mask you put on to face the world or learned behaviour, it is based on your connection with the divinely intelligent energy flow of the universe. If you realise who you truly are and embrace the love and help, that is there for you, nothing or nobody can harm you. It doesn’t matter who you encounter in life or what situation comes your way, you are able to bounce back and stay authentic. This is true power and true self-confidence, dear people. Keep searching for it and asking for it. We are very happy to be of service to you!

Spiritual growth is a dance!

Spiritual growth is not a consistently rising linear line, but rather a forward movement of cycles, which some days will set you back and other days will make you leap forward.

It is like a dance, you take a few steps forward, you take a few steps back, you swirl around, you move in a different direction and you get to see all the corners of the ballroom. It is an ongoing process, but practising the dance and learning the steps will soon make you an excellent dancer, moving through life easily and elegantly, because you understand that this is how it is meant to be. It is not about being perfect or flawless, because making mistakes is inevitable and part of being human. It is about picking yourself up when you trip, dusting yourself of and straightening your clothes to keep on dancing the dance of life!

The ego loves to make you feel insecure. When you get a step wrong or fall to the floor, the little voice inside your mind goes: “See, you handled that all wrong, you just can’t do it right, you are supposed to know better, you are a spiritual person, remember!” Feelings of guilt and shame take over and your energy-frequency plummets like the temperature on a cold winter’s night, leaving you discouraged and depleted.

This is how I felt this morning, when I found myself in a frantic rush, yelling at my son to hurry up and feeling frustrated that nothing went right or rather the way I wanted it to go. Afterwards, when my husband went to work and my son was off to school, I felt cross with myself for not having been able to stay calm and centred. I felt I should have known and done better, but then I came across this beautiful insight about life and growth being a dance and decided to turn this unfortunate start of the morning into a meaningful reminder and a powerful encouragement.

Don’t let the ego get you down, reach out to the angels for help. They will rush to your side to pick you up, lead you back to the dancefloor, even dance with you for a while, help you to remember the steps and then stand aside to applaude you while you show everyone your moves. Remember this, everytime you feel unworthy or ashamed of something you have done or failed to do. It is a DANCE, lovely people! 😊

As always, I like to draw some oracle cards and ask the angels for their point of view. This time I asked my beautiful guardian angel Mimosa for a message, as he is right there with me on the dancefloor every single day!

Dear Marielle, I have given you the first card Opening to Love as an affirmation, that no matter how you feel, you set out to search for and open yourself up to higher wisdom. That is a beautiful step to take. You realize that you get triggered by a situation, you realize that your ego tries to take you down. And at that point, at that exact moment, you know you have the choice to give in, to feel miserable and become a victim or to do something about it and turn it into something beneficial. Your heart is open and if your heart is open, you will experience that Love is the biggest force in the Universe and you will allow Love to heal your heart and lift your mood. Your heart is radiating, my dear child, your heart is being warmed by the Love, you allow to flow through it. This is my advice to everyone, who feels discouraged, begin to open your heart! Don’t slam the door, don’t give up, but be brave and open yourself up to the Love of the Universe, that is right there for you and behold what happens. Love will dissolve any heaviness and will melt away any negative thoughts and feelings, like snow is melted by the warmth of the sun. You know, that I am your Sun, Marielle, and this is true for all the other guardian angels as well.  If you open your heart to your guardian angel, they will be able to help you and warm your heart.

The second card Share the Message of Love seamlessly merges with the first one, because if your heart is filled with Love, and starts to overflow with Love, you have a lot of Love to offer to this world. You turn your less pleasant experiences, your frustrations and sadness into a force for good, which is Love, by using them to help others. You transform negativity into positivity. Love brings healing and by speaking and sharing your words, this world gets healed a little bit more every time. Someone will read your experience and will see the sun breaking through the dark clouds. That is why it is so important and valuable to talk to each other and to encourage each other. Everyone goes through the cycles of life, everyone dances through life. Dance with each other, teach each other new dance steps, let someone lead you and in return be someone else’s leader. Share the Love amongst each other and let it flow freely, it is a gift to the world, if you do so.

The last card is The Ocean. You already know what this means, Marielle, it amplifies how everything is connected, the big ocean consisting of all these little waves, that are all connected to each other, because together they form the same great, big ocean. If you allow Love to come into your heart and let it heal you, you also heal others, as you are all One. The Ocean represents healing. Love is a powerful healing force, share Love and heal each other. It is a very powerful exchange.

I encourage you to open your heart, let Love, unconditional Love, which is available to everyone in the Universe, flow into it. Always remember, that you are greatly loved! Let your heart overflow with Love, be generous, let your Love flow freely to others. Bring healing and speak positive, encouraging words, when you see someone struggling to dance or fall to the floor, help them with your Love.

In short, the most important lesson of all, if you let yourself be filled up with Love, you will not only heal yourself but others as well, because everything and everyone is connected. Form a big, powerful healing wave of cleansing water together and bring a little bit more Light and Love into this world!

-Mimosa, Marielle’s guardian angel-

Energyclearing through forgiveness

Since embracing a conscious lifestyle filled with angelic guidance causing more and more love and light to flow through my heart and soul everyday, I haven’t experienced heavy outbursts of anger or direct clashes with other people for a very long time. However I do feel drained and unhappy sometimes because of the more subtle forms of anger and resentment. These saboteurs are often linked to past grievances and unresolved issues with ourselves and other people and are dormant in our minds most of the time, but can be unconsciously triggered in the present moment. This causes the same unpleasant feelings and emotions to surface and drain our energy once more.

The last time this happened to me, I asked the angels for a message and they presented me with the forgiveness card. I have heard and read a lot about the power of forgiveness throughout the years and how it can help you detach from negativity and move on with a clean slate, but it always remained a bit of an abstract concept to me.

I was curious to see what the Archangels would say about this subject. I channelled this beautiful message from Archangel Jophiel and with the help of my oracle cards she also provided me with clear action steps and the insight that forgiveness is linked to energy clearing.

I am here with you, dear Marielle. Write, my dear child, as it is part of your life’s purpose. Relax and listen without judgement. Forgiveness is something you practise for yourself, to clear your own energy. If you hold on to judgements and negative thoughts about yourself and others, you bring yourself down and burden yourself with an incredibly heavy load, which will cloud your outlook and diminish your joy in life. A lot of people consciously or unconsciously cling to convictions, that do not serve them.

I will start by telling you about self-forgiveness. Every human being comes to Earth to walk his or her lifepath, to experience, to learn and to grow. On this path, you will encounter other human beings and mostly in connection to them situations will arise, where things will not always go smoothly or misunderstandings will occur. The worst thing you can do is to punish yourself for these bumps in the road. Just accept that it is part of the learning experience called life, take responsibility to mend what can be mended and then release it, through cathartic writing for instance, write it down in your book of learning experiences, so to speak. If you do not release it, it will get stuck in your energy-system, where it will cause anxiety and chaos and eventually will seep through to your physical body and cause disease. The same thing happens when in your opinion someone else is to blame. Behold the phrase in your opinion, as seeing faults in one another is purely part of the human perspective, on a spiritual level there are no mistakes, only opportunities to learn. If you feel like someone has mistreated or hurt you, you generate the same undermining feelings and emotions as if you would blame yourself. Only now you proclaim yourself to be the victim in this situation and drown yourself in self-pity. It is unpleasant to experience injustice, no question about it, but there are two things that should immediately cross your mind. Firstly, the damage has been done, there is no way to undo it, it is what it is, you have no choice but to accept what is. Secondly, realise that when you keep marinating in negative emotions you will poison yourself. Feel, relive and let go, clear yourself of all negativity, clear your energy-body, so you can move on in peace. Do not let anger or resentment hold you in its grip, continue to live your life and do not allow it to distract you from your life’s mission. I will present you with beautiful action steps through these lovely flower cards, which I helped Mariëlle pull from the deck and lay out in the correct order.

Peer pressure

This card indicates external influences involving other people and situations, which affect you, like disagreements and misunderstandings. This is what can happen when you connect and interact with other human beings sometimes. The message is about not getting caught up in someone else’s energy and emotions. Stay grounded within yourself. To do this you need to shield yourself, which is the next card.

Shield yourself

It is necessary to protect yourself to avoid escalation, stop any reactive behaviour and ask us angels to help you. Remove yourself physically from the situation if possible. Cut the energetical connection between yourself and the other person, ask Archangel Michael for help to do so. Try to remain calm and peaceful, know that anger and irritation are lower energies and only add fuel to the fire and cause additional pain. Shielding yourself is all about taking your distance both physically as well as energetically, ask the angels for a pillar of protective and healing light.

Let go of anxiety

As soon as you have taken your distance and you have come to yourself again, you can still feel the whirlwind of stirred up emotions inside your mind and body. This restless energy still flows around in your system and is effecting your well-being. Now is the time to collect all these emotions, to look at them with compassion and then release them. Let them go, surrender, give them to us angels, we are happy to take them from you and to transform them in the light. If you let go of your emotions you will be able to calm and centre yourself again. In this state of being you are more receptive to our loving help. You will be able to hear our whispers of reassurance in your ear, which will bring us to the last card.

Raise your vibration

With the help and support of the angels you can raise your energy frequency or vibration, which enables you to clearly hear our messages and guidance. You will be provided with a clear vision on which way to go and what steps to take next. This will lead you to the path that is right for you and will bring you closer to your life’s mission. You start to gravitate towards true joy and fulfilment.

As you can see, forgiveness really is all about self-care. It is about how you handle situations and in what way you interact with people. It is about guarding your inner peace, protecting this treasure, as it determines whether you stand or fall. As far as unconscious hidden resentment is concerned, your body is a beautiful detector of disharmonies and unbalance due to unresolved negative emotions. As soon as your energy levels drop and you do not have a fresh, peaceful outlook anymore, it is a sign that something is not right.

Turn to these steps, know what is good for you, protect yourself, let go, raise your vibration with the help of the angels.

It all comes down to inner peace and how do you keep it? By regularly cleaning your energy. Ask us angels to help you. The more you practise clearing your energy, the easier and the more natural it will become.

I bless you, dear child, for being open to receiving this important message, share it with the world and by doing so, make this world a little bit better. In love,

 -Archangel Jophiel-

The truth about rejection

Today was my son’s annual school trip to a local theme-park. As all his classmates were gathering in the hallway early this morning, the children whose parents were asked to chauffeur, chose other children to ride in the car with them. As more and more happy groups were forming, my son didn’t get picked. One mother suggested to take him with them, but her son bluntly declined and said he would rather pick someone else. The look of disappointment and hurt on my son’s face, when he stood there as one of the last remaining children, waiting to get picked, felt like a dagger going through my heart.

This is the painful feeling of rejection, which all of us suffer through one time or another in our lives. Eventually my son did get to ride with a lovely group and he did enjoy himself on his adventurous outing, but the bad taste of sadness and hurt still lingered in my mouth, so when he was off having fun, I decided to ask the angels about rejection and the painful emotions it causes. I drew some oracle cards and the wise and warm Archangel Raziel had a complimenting message for me.

This incident really gets to you, because you have been there yourself and you know exactly how it feels when you see it happen to someone else. Your sensitivity causes you to be able to feel the same emotion. Every time you experienced rejection in your life, a little piece of your soul got broken, so to speak, because you weren’t conscious yet of the spiritual Truth and the Divine Love of the Universe. You were conditioned, like many, to search for the approval of other people. This already started at a very young age, in your up-bringing you were taught that love is conditional. Behave and be sweet otherwise you will lose your parents’ love and affection. This causes people to desperately seek for approval to feel whole again, to try to smoothen and mend these damaged parts of their soul. That is why it is necessary to get some insights in what is truly going on.

Your past causes you to still react and feel this way, your old wounds stir up these emotions. If you would really know and feel the true Love, that is here for you unconditionally, nothing or nobody would be able to give you the feeling of rejection, dear child. You would feel completely different! You must take an honest look at your past and realize that you are still being influenced by it. Healing is needed for all those times, that you felt rejected as a child and even as an unconscious adult. I say “felt”, as it is nothing but a feeling. From a human perspective, you see “the one” and “the other”, you and me, but in fact we are all One, everything and everybody is One. And if this is so, how can you feel rejected? It is something you put upon yourself, the story you tell yourself in your head. Feel these emotions, be honest with yourself, see them for what they really are and they will lose their power over you and you can then release them! If you have gone through this process of healing, a big weight will be lifted of your shoulders, because the emotion of rejection is felt deep inside your heart.

The art of living is to find your own way and make your own plans without the fear of rejection. You have come to this world with your own special mission and that has nothing to do with anyone else’s point of view or approval. Nobody can really feel what you feel and know what you know, that is why you must learn to trust yourself and not depend on someone else’s approval. Remember that the whole loving Universe is always on your side! When negative, undermining emotions get a hold of you, you momentarily lose your connection with us, until you realize what is happening and you start finding us again, asking for help and opening your heart to our love, which will make your emotions disappear, like snow in the sun. You can surrender everything to us, we will free you of your burden and fill you with our love, energy and support. You will soon thrive again. In these moments of quiet contemplation, you will renew your strength and fly high again on our fuel of pure love. Don’t forget who you are, dear child, you are a wonderful child of God and highly appreciated by the whole Universe. We watch you and cheer you on every step of the way, it is true! We rejoice every time a human being finds the stillness and looks for higher guidance and gains new insights. Let us help you, dear child, you don’t have to do it all by yourself! In love and always here for you,

-Archangel Raziel-